Giving gifts is one of the most common expressions of love and appreciation during the holidays. However, buying gifts for some loved ones can be challenging. For example, what do you get loved ones facing cognitive decline? My father lived with dementia for several years, and I remember how difficult it could be to find gifts that brought him joy while also supporting his unique needs.
When a parent has Alzheimer’s disease or a related dementia, families must be mindful of the gifts they choose. The right gift can spark memories, encourage engagement, and provide comfort during a challenging time for many families.
Here are some gift ideas that are perfect for seniors with dementia.
Special Considerations for Seniors with Dementia
When choosing a gift for a family member with Alzheimer’s, there are some things you may need to consider. Here are some questions to think about when picking out a gift:
- How advanced is their dementia? Seniors in the early stages of dementia may only have minimal symptoms of the disease, while seniors in later stages are very affected. It’s important to adapt your gifts to the abilities of your loved one.
- Could the item be used in an unsafe way? Alzheimer’s affects a senior’s judgment and decision-making skills. As a result, they may use items in ways that were not intended, potentially harming themselves.
- What does the senior enjoy? People with dementia may not be able to enjoy their hobbies or interests in the same way. However, some gifts could help remind them of their old hobbies and help them reminisce.
Remember that there are different forms of dementia, and each one can pose different challenges — not just memory loss. For example, seniors with Lewy body dementia are more likely to suffer from hallucinations. Keep your loved one’s signs of dementia in mind as you pick out a gift for them.
Gift Ideas for People with Alzheimer’s
With the considerations above in mind, here is a list of some of the top gifts for seniors living with Alzheimer’s disease.
1. Word Puzzles
It might seem counterintuitive to give a senior with Alzheimer’s a word puzzle book. However, word puzzles can help stimulate the brain and provide a sense of accomplishment. Choose puzzles that match your loved one’s abilities, such as more difficult ones for early-stage dementia and simpler options for later stages.
My Pick: Easy Relaxing Puzzles by Joy Kinnest
2. Favorite Treat
If your loved one has a favorite snack or dessert, consider gifting it to them. Many individuals with Alzheimer’s have changing appetites, and a favorite treat can bring joy and comfort. If you don’t live close enough to bake a treat, you could consider meal delivery or a gift card to a favorite restaurant.
My Pick: Pie in any flavor!
3. Movies or Shows
Seniors with dementia might enjoy movies or TV shows from their favorite era. Movies and TV can bring back fond memories. Watching these together is a great way to bond and spend quality time.
My Pick: Indiana Jones (any of them!)
4. Coloring Book
Coloring can help seniors practice their dexterity and provide a creative outlet. Select coloring books suited to their abilities, along with colored pencils or crayons.
My Pick: Simple Coloring Book for Adults by Color Me Bright
5. Soft Blanket
People with dementia can become sensitive to the temperature of the room. A cozy blanket can help your loved one feel comfortable and warm, especially during colder months. Choose one with a soft texture or a design that’s meaningful to them.
My Pick: Bedsure Sherpa Fleece Throw Blanket
6. Photo Book
Compile a memory book, memory box, or digital photo frame filled with family pictures. This thoughtful gift can help seniors reminisce and stay connected to loved ones.
My Pick: Canupdog WiFi Digital Picture Frame
7. Smart Device
Devices like an Amazon Echo or Google Home can assist with simple tasks, such as playing music and showing pictures. Some even allow for video calls, making it easier to stay in touch.
8. Fidget Board or Activity Pillow
Another great dementia gift is a fidget board or activity pillow. They have ribbons, snaps, buttons, and textured materials to engage the senses and improve dexterity.
My Pick: Fidget Blanket for Adults with Dementia
9. Simple Phone
An older adult might struggle to use a device, like a phone, as dementia progresses. Phones designed for seniors with dementia often feature large buttons and photos of loved ones to simplify dialing.
My Pick: VTech Amplified Photo Dial Cordless Phone System
10. Doll or Stuffed Animal
A doll or a stuffed animal can help seniors with Alzheimer’s reduce anxiety. A doll or stuffed animal can offer comfort and companionship, giving seniors a sense of purpose and relaxation.
My Pick: Lifelike Reborn Baby Dolls for Seniors with Dementia
11. Grippy Socks
Part of aging is actually a decreased ability for our bodies to regulate temperature. Non-slip socks keep seniors warm and reduce the risk of falls. They’re a practical yet thoughtful gift.
My Pick: Gripjoy Grip Socks
12. Large Clock
A person with dementia can easily get confused about what day of the week it is. A clock that shows the time, day of the week, and date in large print helps seniors stay oriented and reduces confusion.
My Pick: American Lifetime Large Digital Clock
13. Simple Music Player
Music can improve mood and trigger positive memories. A dementia-friendly music player is easy to use and packed with benefits. You could even create a playlist with their favorite songs from earlier years.
My Pick: SMP Music Player with Lifter for Seniors
14. Weighted Wrap
A senior with dementia may develop anxiety or suffer from other behavioral changes. Weighted blankets and wraps can ease stress and help seniors feel secure and calm.
My Pick: YnM Weighted Shoulder Wrap with Hot or Cold Therapy Beads
15. Modeling Clay
Modeling clay or similar art supplies encourage creativity and tactile engagement. Seniors in the late stage of Alzheimer’s may like the feel of the clay in their hands.
My Pick: FlintRehab Durable Therapy Putty
16. Scents
Sensory stimulation is great for seniors with late-stage dementia. Gifts like candles, essential oils, or scented lotions provide sensory stimulation. Make sure the items are safe and easy to use so seniors don’t accidentally burn themselves.
My Pick: Essential Oil Diffuser with Remove Control
17. Lava Lamp
Family and friends may also want to gift a lava lamp to a loved one. A lava lamp provides gentle visual stimulation, creating a calming effect for seniors with dementia.
My Pick: Color Changing Liquid Motion Lamp with Remote
18. Large Books or Audiobooks
For seniors who struggle with vision or concentration, consider large-print books or audiobooks in genres they love. Large print is easy to read, allowing seniors to continue to enjoy reading.
My Pick: Audiobooks.com
19. Subscription Service
Another good idea is a subscription service. Monthly deliveries of flowers, magazines, or snacks give seniors something to look forward to.
My Pick: Snack Crate
20. Specialty Calendar
Because Alzheimer’s affects memory, your loved one will undoubtedly struggle to remember birthdays and holidays. A calendar featuring family photos and important dates can help seniors stay oriented and feel connected.
My Pick: Shutterfly Custom Calendars
Final Thoughts: Great Gifts for Seniors with Alzheimer’s
Choosing the right gift is important, but how you present it can make the experience even more meaningful for your loved one with dementia.
- Choose easy-to-open gift bags or packaging to avoid frustration.
- Present the gift during a calm moment, away from potential distractions.
- Consider demonstrating how to use the gift if it’s something new or interactive.
By choosing your gift with care this holiday season, you’ll bring joy and comfort to your loved one with Alzheimer’s. Thoughtful presents can stimulate the senses, spark happy memories, and improve their overall quality of life. For more tips on supporting seniors with dementia, contact your local Caring Senior Service office.
